I was talking to someone the other night. I mentioned that I'm getting better to saying "no" during the holidays. No to- too much stuff, too many expectation of something perfect, too much shopping, too much rich food, too much stress. I am saying "yes" to- more quiet, more simplicity, healthier foods, more down time. I was overwhelmed this last weekend trying to decorate. I realized I still have too much stuff. So... I have one box ready for donation, and #2 is in the works. Works for me! I really liked this article, lots of thoughtful ideas- Embracing A Simpler Christmas
I read the article Nancy, I agree with the wolf in sheep's clothing for sure. But ever since I left my old life behind (i.e. family and friends) and became somewhat of a hermit, I find zero pressure with regards to Christmas. Alex and I have a price limit on our gift exchange though sometimes we go over it. One year we only had a $20 limit due to budgetary constraints and we actually stuck to it! I save a little bit of money each month for food and drinks and little presents. For me, Christmas is a holiday I can finally enjoy without all the pressure and stress. We don't go all out on decorations, one tree and some homemade crafts. It's nice and relaxing, as it should be! I think you have the right idea. :)
ReplyDeleteThanks Rain and you have the right idea too!
DeleteI'll read the article later today, and we downsized quite a bit. I donated much of our knick-knack stuff many years ago, and we still have nice decorations. We are not gifting anything store bought this year. I have a few canned items if I need them, and I am crocheting for the kids with what yarn I have, but that's it. And we are focusing on our blessings, a nice family meal around the table, and a day of play on Christmas day (games, movies, leftovers, and just a do-nothing, be thankful kind of day. That's the plan anyway.
ReplyDeleteSounds like you're right on track too!
DeleteVery good - and timely - advice! As our family ages, it gets easier to simplify. No one has the energy! I have gone to the extreme in the opposite direction; no decorations. But this year I seem to be more in the holiday spirit, so am doing just light touches, here and there. I love your heated water dish!
ReplyDeleteYes you have to sometimes play to see what works. The heated birdbath was a great thrifted find the birds love it!!!
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