What Love Means To a 4-8 Year Old-
I re-read this today, it still inspires me! Read the whole thing.
A group of professional people posed this question
to a group of 4 to 8 year-olds,
"What does love mean?" The answers
they got were broader and deeper than anyone
could have imagined. See what you
think:
"When my grandmother got arthritis,
she couldn't bend over and paint her toenails anymore. So my grandfather does
it for her all the time, even when his hands got arthritis too. That's
love." Rebecca- age 8
When someone loves you, the way they say
your name is different. You just know that your name is safe in their
mouth." Billy - age 4
"Love is when a girl puts on perfume
and a boy puts on shaving cologne and they go out and smell each other." Karl - age 5
"Love is when you go out to eat and
give somebody most of your French fries without making them give you any of
theirs." Chrissy - age 6
"Love is what makes you smile when
you're tired." Terri - age 4
"Love is when my mommy makes coffee
for my daddy and she takes a sip before giving it to him, to make sure the
taste is OK." Danny - age 7
"Love is when you kiss all the time.
Then when you get tired of kissing, you still want to be together and you talk
more. My Mommy and Daddy are like that. They look gross when they kiss" Emily - age 8
"Love is what's in the room with you
at Christmas if you stop opening presents and listen." Bobby - age 7 (WOW!!!)
"If you want to learn to love better,
you should start with a friend who you hate," Nikka - age 6 (we need a few million more Nikka's on this planet)
"Love is when you tell a guy you like
his shirt, then he wears it everyday." Noelle - age 7
"Love is like a little old woman and a
little old man who are still friends even after they know each other so
well." Tommy - age 6
"During my piano recital, I was on a stage
and I was scared. I looked at all the people watching me and saw my daddy
waving and smiling. He was the only one
doing that. I wasn't scared anymore." Cindy - age 8
"My mommy loves me more than anybody.
You don't see anyone else kissing me to sleep at night." Clare - age 6
"Love is when Mommy gives Daddy the
best piece of chicken." Elaine-age
5
"Love is when Mommy sees Daddy smelly
and sweaty and still says he is handsomer than Robert Redford." Chris - age 7
"Love is when your puppy licks your
face even after you left him alone all day." Mary Ann - age 4
"I know my older sister loves me
because she gives me all her old clothes and has to go out and buy new
ones." Lauren - age 4
"When you love somebody, your
eyelashes go up and down and little stars come out you." (what an image)
Karen - age 7
"Love is when Mommy sees Daddy on the
toilet and she doesn't think it's gross."
Mark - age 6
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"You really shouldn't say 'I love you'
unless you mean it. But if you mean it, you should say it a lot. People
forget." Jessica - age 8
And the final one -- Author and lecturer
Leo Buscaglia once talked about a contest he was asked to judge. The purpose of
the contest was to find the most caring child.
The winner was a four year old child whose next door neighbor was an elderly
gentleman who had recently lost his wife. Upon seeing the man cry, the little
boy went into the old gentleman's yard, climbed onto his lap, and just sat
there.
When his Mother asked what he had said to
the neighbor, the little boy said, "Nothing, I just helped him cry".
Thank you for this post! It started me off with a nice, warm glow.
ReplyDeleteFrom the mouths of babes...
ReplyDeleteSweet post, thanks for sharing! :)